The Key to a Successful Life

June 16, 2016 by

“Love yourself first and everything else falls into place.” ~ Lucille Ball

The Key to a Successful Life

If you want to find the key to happiness, success and abundance, you need to start by, as I said last week…” Remember What’s Important…and Have Fun” and by evaluating your own opinion of yourself. It’s not always easy to appreciate the hard work you put in every day, the difference you make in the lives of others, and the distance you’re willing to go to make your dreams come true. If it were easy, then everyone would do it, but before you even begin to think about things such as success and failure, you need to come to know yourself, and then you need to learn to love yourself.

That’s not easy, because as the saying goes, “we are all our own worst critics.” That saying is absolutely correct. We find it difficult to love ourselves because we witness every mistake we make, every personality flaw we carry, every selfish tendency we possess, and we also are the one who knows exactly what we are capable of.

Learning to love yourself is not something that happens overnight, it is learned through experience and effort. Too often society teaches us that we need to look outside ourselves to find out who we really are, but I think the exact opposite is true. If you really want to understand more about your purpose in life, you need to turn inward, not outward. You need to learn how to live “Inside Out”. Turning outward will cause you to submit to the pressures of the world and be a person that you aren’t meant to be, but reflecting inward will connect you with your true self, and if you follow your instincts you will never be led astray.

The more you reflect inward, the more you will learn about yourself, and through that learning, you will come to appreciate what you have to offer the world. You will realize that you are stronger, more intelligent, and more talented than you have ever imagined. You will feel moved to share your gifts with the world, and over time that will transform you into an unselfish person who knows what it means to find success and how to have fun while finding it.

If the idea of loving yourself wholeheartedly is foreign to you, try taking the following steps offered by Kyle Hunt in his article, “The Key to a Successful Life is to Love Yourself”.

#1: Forgive Yourself for Past and Future Mistakes Each one of us will make mistakes every day, so you might as well forgive yourself now and get it over with it. Once you learn to forgive yourself of mistakes and move forward, you will be better in control of your emotional state, which will allow you to continue pushing toward your goals of success when mistakes and failures do come up. And here’s a secret: they will always come up!

#2: Put Your Own Needs First Every Once in a While Each one of us has our own personal needs, but usually we get too caught up taking care of the needs of others to make time to take care of ourselves. If you want to build more confidence and have positive feelings toward yourself, you need to ask yourself “Is this what I really want?” before you make any important decisions. Don’t make decisions based on the opinions of others, make decisions that are right for you. Over time you will love yourself more for being willing to trust.

#3: Make Time to do Things You Love The most successful people in the world rarely have a difficult time with their work, because they are involved in things they are deeply passionate about. You can take this same attitude with your life. If you aren’t doing things you love on a routine basis, what is the purpose of living? Of course, make sure you have time to attend to all of your responsibilities, but always leave extra time for the things you love most, including yourself.

“If you want to soar in life, you must first learn to F.L.Y. (First Love Yourself).” ~ Mark Sterling


I make time for the things I love.

I forgive myself for my past and future mistakes.

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